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Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men...Ephesians 6:7

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Time Travel

One of the most valuable things on the planet is “time”. You can’t produce it, buy it, or make it up. “Back to the Future” was one of the popular movies during the 80’s. It was a movie based on the idea of time travel. There are times when I wish I could go back and change something. There are times I wish I could take back something I said, made something more of a priority, spent less time at work, or more time focusing on the important things like my wife and kids.

So how do we make the most of our time. Work is a part of life. In fact, people who work will spend over fifty percent of there life at their job! The University of Florida published an article that reminded me of a good principle concerning time with our children and families. Although time is important, it must be the right kind of time. “The emphasis is on what you do with [them] instead of how much time you spend with them.”

Should we replace quantity time with quality time? Often, quality time originates from quantity time. We can’t always plan for those meaningful conversations and heartfelt moments needed by our wives and children. So, we make room for both!

Plan for quality uninterrupted time. This will take intentional thought and panning on our part. A good place to start may be to take off work an hour early or planning a family night at home.
Quantity time is created by being available! Be home when your children are home if you can. Make sure to make the most of the weekends if you have them off from work. Spend some time with them daily even if it is for twenty minutes after you get home from work. Remember, they have been waiting for you!

Since we already know time is valuable and there is nothing we can do to make more, we should make the absolute most out of what we have been given! Start today by spending fifteen minutes of uninterrupted time with your children or spouse!