When I Grow Up!

Being a great father is something the culture should promote! When you ask kids what they want to be when they grow up, what is the response? Normally it consist of becoming a star athlete, having a really good paying job, or going to college. Those things are great to aspire to and certainly add to the spice of life. However, what greater impact could a young man hope for than to become a great father that raises a Godly family. A family that continues that tradition can impact the community, nation and the world as a whole more than money, fame, or education. In addition to that, being a great father is far more remembered than those other things as well!

What emphasis do you put on being a great dad?

Community Example

As I work through the issues of fatherhood here at the Wiregrass Hope Group, work and family are frequent subjects that come up! If you are part of the leadership in local business and you know the importance of being an active and involved father, what are you doing in the workplace to make it easier for guys to be good dads? Did you know that 80 percent of employees don't know the family-friendly options available to them? What are some ways that businesses might facilitate the importance of fathers in the family while maintaining a productive work environment?

New Dads

When I meet new dads, I am never surprised by the way they answer the first question I ask them. "What kind of Dad do you want to be?" Although I may get different answers, they all point to one commonality. They all want to be good dads. They may not know what that looks like but that's what they want! Guys never wake up and think, "I want to ruin my kid's life today". What causes dads to run from that responsibility? Why do some shrink in fear while others welcome the challenge? Some start with good intentions and never finish Others finish well but had a shaky start! What gives?

I welcome your insights and comments on this topic!

The Power of One

Sometimes when us guys look at all our responsibilities, we tend to get overwhelmed. At least I know I do. Some time ago, I found it helpful to pick one thing that I could do to be a better father. I decided to concentrate on that and then after that I went to the next one thing I could do. Doing this helps me to laser in on one thing until I make it a life habit.

What one thing could you do for the next seven days that will demonstrate to your family that you are making a focused effort to be the man they need you to be?

The Father Factor: “Super” Motivated by Their Dads

The Father Factor: “Super” Motivated by Their Dads: "It seems if you want to be a superhero these days, you need to have some “drama” with your father. The title characters in the two big supe..."

Fathering and Culture

So, tomorrow I am going back to the local jail to talk with the men there about being a great dad! We are using the curriculum from National Fatherhood Initiative 24/7 Dad. The next session topic is Fathering and Culture!

The big question? How is fathering in today's culture different from your father's culture when he was raising you?

The Call of Duty

There was a time on earth where battles fought by men were with shield and sword. A time when men’s honor and the community’s safety rested upon their skill with these weapons. Men and men alone were sworn to defend all that they held dear. These were hard times of harsh realities and a focused ambition. Fathers knew that the survival of their families depended upon how well they performed on the battlefield and how well they taught their children to defend themselves against enemies who sought to disrupt peace and that which was good. Their battlefield was chosen for them and their mission was clear; they were the protectors and defenders in an untamed land where evil roamed the earth.

Today battles fought by the majority of men are not with sword and shield. Contemporary weapons men often use today are things like computers and email blasts, grudges and revenge business deals, slander and hasty spending, long hours at the office, arguments with their wife and children or one of many addictions. Times are still hard and there are plenty of harsh realities for each of us to have our fair share. Have we forgotten a simple truth in the midst of the battle? As fathers we must be reminded that we are still the first line of offense and defense for our families. Their well-being and honor is highly influenced by our skill on the battle field of life.